alternative girl
i lift frequently, most ive done was 340
don’t talk to me like i’m stupid, and don’t *** me into submission. not interested! and yes i like pegging don’t message me if that bothers you
i don’t entertain trump or ice supporters let alone republicans
Seeking:
Experienced Dom in multiple dynamics. I personally do not fall solely into one dynamic. I’m a bit of a middle, a brat, service sub, slave. It’s a delicate balance. Communication is key to building the blueprint of a dynamic.
I appreciate a Dom who knows true authority doesn’t need to be loud.
I’m monogamous, but you may do as you please.
I do get turned on by a possessive Dom though that controls much of my activities for the purpose of my growth.
Queer, masochistic femme bottoms eager to please but with an eye for debauchery to the front please! If you aren’t even a lil queer then you can’t sit here- please move on.
NOW…
Welcome to House of H.E.A.T. (Hedonists Enduring All Things) Sadist through and through, let me *** you with pleasure as you thank me for it 😈 Have a lead? I have two hands and a soft heart for hell hounds. Power exchange? Game on. Impact, wax, rope- let’s play, Doll. That all said…
I take D/s relationships very seriously. Connection & Communication must be developed before anything else. Big on boundaries, respect & consent- don’t hit me up if that doesn’t align with you. My Domme style can be soft or stern. I believe in mutual exchange and care deeply for my play partners- the relationship is for you just as much as it is for me.
NOT A SUB! And don’t take kindly to people trying to *** that dynamic. If you can’t respect that boundary, you are an unsafe person and don’t belong here ‘til you figure that out.
Looking for:
- Friends who like to be involved- go to events, dress up, and/or play💫
- Rope Bottom comfortable engaging in public settings (bonus points if you’re into sadistic rope)
- Other Dom/mes to chat and engage with platonically
- Educators in the area interested in being involved at my venue
treat me like a priceless princess and I will treat you like a god/goddess I'm a single mom of four kids and am very busy and the only day I have available for a date is Friday during the day looking for fun adventure and sincerity and a reason to not go back to my ex of 8 years I don't want to talk about a serious future but I don't want to be a one-night stand I'm looking for something in between I come with a lot of baggage and high standards. My kink isn't about being told what I want to hear. It's about being known.
The things that affect me most are often invisible to everyone else: noticing I'm tired before I admit it, handing me water before I realize I'm thirsty, remembering my routines, my comforts, my preferences, and acting on them without being asked. Show me your devotion through attention. Show me your care through action.
I am deeply service-oriented by nature. Caring for someone I love gives me a feeling I can't fully explain. I enjoy nurturing, supporting, comforting, and making life easier for the people who matter to me. But gratitude means more to me when it's demonstrated than spoken. Effort recognizes effort.
Water is its own kind of intimacy to me. Bathing a partner, being bathed, sharing a shower, floating together in a lake, sitting in a hot tub after a long day, existing together in that quiet space where trust feels effortless. Few things feel more connecting.
For compatibility's sake: bodily fluid play is not my thing.
As for power dynamics, I don't submit because someone demands it. My submission is earned through consistency, competence, observation, and respect. Earn my respect, and you'll have my attention.
That said, respectfully domineering energy catches my eye. If you're the type who pays attention to every whim, every habit, every preference, and uses that knowledge to guide rather than control for your own benefit, that's where things get interesting. The fastest way to lose me is to impose what you want. The fastest way to keep me is to understand what I want before I say it.
Learn me. Pay attention. Take the lead based on who I am, not who you wish I were, and you may find that what I willingly offer is far more powerful than anything that could ever be demanded.
Hello, If You Are Actually Reading This, I'm Here Just To Possibly Make New Friends And Just To Talk, If You Can't Handle That Then It's Best That You Step Off My Page. Thank You.
I have dabbled in BDSM and the swinger lifestyle a little. I’m craving connection and I want to learn more about myself, my kinks and my sexuality.
Hoping to meet some new friends!
Especially interested in meeting other women in the kink scene to be friends with. I don’t have any female friends to talk about any of this stuff with and would enjoy that kind of friendly connection.
Trump supporters can move along…nothing for you here.
🖕🏻🧊
ENM — generally date solo. looking to be the student in my kink journey this time around. hoping for new and novel experiences, to meet potential partners as well as just meet cool people in the scene. I’m not into ONS and random hookups. I prefer something ongoing, even if it is more casual.
coming on too spicy *** 🥵 right out the gate is a turn off, so play it cool 🥶 in my DMs please.
a bit about me: *** lover, good cook, probably a cat or two past crazy cat lady, mini homesteader, my house looks like I’m losing a game of jumanji cuz there’s houseplants EVERYWHERE. a bit witchy, so yes, my decor involves jars, bones, and cool rocks. I’m a bit on the introverted side, therapized AF, ADHD AF, can’t remember what I had for breakfast, but that’s probably because I forgot to have any and just had coffee. 🤷🏼♀️
Sugar and Spite, I'm just right! 😋🍭😈
Send a message if you want to catch my attention. 😏
I'm outgoing, confident, flirty, but most of all looking for friendship and connections! One of my favorite ways to connect is through music, dance, nature, or a coffee date.
If you only want to see me without clothes, DM the following emojis 💸🌶
I'm not interested in playing with couples... unless it's with my partner! I'm not a unicorn, no matter how magical I appear! 🥰
IMPORTANT NOTE: I am in an open marriage and while I'm looking for connections, I'm not looking for another life partner. 💓 If you know me you can message me, but please keep my lifestyle private as I do yours! 🥰
I've been called a 'MILF' and now 'GILF'😁.. I have 3 grown *** from a previous relationship and have 1 other child from my last relationship. I'm a Mexican American born and raised in L.A but am a CHICANA who is now residing in Reno, Nv. I am still discovering more about myself. In this journey, the world of kinkyness and waiting to meet new friends.
Just trying to have some fun in this boring life?
Looking for local hookups or some cyber fun.
If youre older than 33 please dont message me, i dont have daddy issues.
I love being dominated, but also down to switch and learn new things.
I’m into: CNC, Anal(still new to it), Public, Rope Play, Degrading, and a few other things 😉
If your a girl who likes showing newbies the ropes please hit me up😩
If you’re looking to have some fun, or just be friends, I’m down for either.
I’m down for almost anything as long as you play your cards right.
I am a bratty sub who has never been put in place. Many have tried many have failed. If you are 5ft 10 or taller and feel up to the challenge, then im here ready to push buttons
I'm in a polyamorous relationship, I'm the oldest of four. I can also be shy at first, I just need time to get comfortable. I'm not looking for anything casual or hookups. I want something genuine and kind.
literally just a fucking girl😘just your... short... crazy... average goth girl...what can I say.. im just me🖤
vanilla me
I love playing with makeup and hair and nails and eyelashes
kinky me🪶💣🍸
i like playing with ropes... and candles... and I love exploring new things.
*Mostly looking for someone intrested in soft doming me right now*
I'm a omnisexual (think bi) and I'm intrested in friends, lovers, or possibly more. I'm definatly a switch but have only had dom partners. I'd love to explore being a dom more, but also need to be tied up and flogged. Also if you are a dom, I need guiding dominance not blind obedience. If you try to dom me to take power instead of to empower then you will deal with my brat and you will not win. but if you dom me in an empowering way I will worship at your feet.
I'm just a curious lady looking to explore my daydreams and see what kind of kinks I really like! If anyone wants to spoil me and be my sugar daddy I'll be a good little slut for you hehe. I am a freak for sure but I'm not sure what I'm fully looking for FWB maybe idk rn...hit me up we'll see don't be mad I don't write you either......if I like you I will....and I don't have notifications.....make it worth my time.....do better than your so pretty.....I'm a funny, sexy Scorpio looking to be spoiled and have some fun.
✨ Welcome, Devoted One... ✨
You’ve just entered the presence of your Goddess — where luxury, temptation, and control intertwine. 💋 Kneel before elegance, surrender to desire, and know that your pleasure is mine to command. 👑
Really only interested in like-minded play partner for Long-term/re occurring FWB style relationships but I do not jump in immediately and if you message me like a creeper, I may or may not shatter your ego so be respectful because I have a low tolerance for bs and a sharp tongue.... Otherwise, I'm generally a sweetheart.
NBM Feral Bratty Kitten who has never been properly adopted nor cared for. Looking for an experienced SD Tamer who looking for keeps; to build LT connection both in the streets and sheets.
hubby and I are looking to step more into the lifestyle together! I have been apart of the life style for 12+years and he is about 2-3 years into it, we enjoy swinging, swapping, 3sums or groups! looking for mostly couples or a 3rd to join us in some fun times!
I’m ***, 43, married, and unapologetically straightforward—I’ll tell you if it’s not clicking
, available day times only for now .
I don’t know exactly what I want yet, but I know what I don’t: vanilla vibes, games, ghosting, or drama. Craving bold chemistry, power play, and daytime edges . Swipe if you’re drama-free and ready for real talk
If I'm not hiding behind trade-wife mask I proberly sitting hours on my pc playing Shooters and cuss the world out I'm not really social, I usually don't drink and I quit smoking few years ago mean smell of cigarettes make me wanna throw up now !
I'm rollercoaster of emotions from angry door kicking to curl up kitty.
Seeking:
Experienced Dom in multiple dynamics. I personally do not fall solely into one dynamic. I’m a bit of a middle, a brat, service sub, slave. It’s a delicate balance. Communication is key to building the blueprint of a dynamic.
I appreciate a Dom who knows true authority doesn’t need to be loud.
I’m monogamous, but you may do as you please.
I do get turned on by a possessive Dom though that controls much of my activities for the purpose of my growth.
treat me like a priceless princess and I will treat you like a god/goddess I'm a single mom of four kids and am very busy and the only day I have available for a date is Friday during the day looking for fun adventure and sincerity and a reason to not go back to my ex of 8 years I don't want to talk about a serious future but I don't want to be a one-night stand I'm looking for something in between I come with a lot of baggage and high standards. My kink isn't about being told what I want to hear. It's about being known.
The things that affect me most are often invisible to everyone else: noticing I'm tired before I admit it, handing me water before I realize I'm thirsty, remembering my routines, my comforts, my preferences, and acting on them without being asked. Show me your devotion through attention. Show me your care through action.
I am deeply service-oriented by nature. Caring for someone I love gives me a feeling I can't fully explain. I enjoy nurturing, supporting, comforting, and making life easier for the people who matter to me. But gratitude means more to me when it's demonstrated than spoken. Effort recognizes effort.
Water is its own kind of intimacy to me. Bathing a partner, being bathed, sharing a shower, floating together in a lake, sitting in a hot tub after a long day, existing together in that quiet space where trust feels effortless. Few things feel more connecting.
For compatibility's sake: bodily fluid play is not my thing.
As for power dynamics, I don't submit because someone demands it. My submission is earned through consistency, competence, observation, and respect. Earn my respect, and you'll have my attention.
That said, respectfully domineering energy catches my eye. If you're the type who pays attention to every whim, every habit, every preference, and uses that knowledge to guide rather than control for your own benefit, that's where things get interesting. The fastest way to lose me is to impose what you want. The fastest way to keep me is to understand what I want before I say it.
Learn me. Pay attention. Take the lead based on who I am, not who you wish I were, and you may find that what I willingly offer is far more powerful than anything that could ever be demanded.
I am a bratty sub who has never been put in place. Many have tried many have failed. If you are 5ft 10 or taller and feel up to the challenge, then im here ready to push buttons
Wanting to try new things and need a teacher for the ride so looking for a woman that likes it when I say yes ma'am.
used to being in the master role but always wanted someone that'll take the lead.
ENM — generally date solo. looking to be the student in my kink journey this time around. hoping for new and novel experiences, to meet potential partners as well as just meet cool people in the scene. I’m not into ONS and random hookups. I prefer something ongoing, even if it is more casual.
coming on too spicy *** 🥵 right out the gate is a turn off, so play it cool 🥶 in my DMs please.
a bit about me: *** lover, good cook, probably a cat or two past crazy cat lady, mini homesteader, my house looks like I’m losing a game of jumanji cuz there’s houseplants EVERYWHERE. a bit witchy, so yes, my decor involves jars, bones, and cool rocks. I’m a bit on the introverted side, therapized AF, ADHD AF, can’t remember what I had for breakfast, but that’s probably because I forgot to have any and just had coffee. 🤷🏼♀️
I've been called a 'MILF' and now 'GILF'😁.. I have 3 grown *** from a previous relationship and have 1 other child from my last relationship. I'm a Mexican American born and raised in L.A but am a CHICANA who is now residing in Reno, Nv. I am still discovering more about myself. In this journey, the world of kinkyness and waiting to meet new friends.
I'm in a polyamorous relationship, I'm the oldest of four. I can also be shy at first, I just need time to get comfortable. I'm not looking for anything casual or hookups. I want something genuine and kind.
Hello, If You Are Actually Reading This, I'm Here Just To Possibly Make New Friends And Just To Talk, If You Can't Handle That Then It's Best That You Step Off My Page. Thank You.
I’m just a simple gal looking for her person! I’m a switch that leans more submissive but I would love to make some BDSM friends and talk about our experiences!
Short thick Latina who’s adorable 💕
Looking for Dom to take care of me.
Looking to control as well.
Princess by day, loyalist at night.
About Me:
Spoiled 🙃
Mean when needed 😈
Loves cuddles to tame 🥰
Acts of affection melts me 😳
Very confident 😎
Attracted to a hunter/chaser.
Sugar and Spite, I'm just right! 😋🍭😈
Send a message if you want to catch my attention. 😏
I'm outgoing, confident, flirty, but most of all looking for friendship and connections! One of my favorite ways to connect is through music, dance, nature, or a coffee date.
If you only want to see me without clothes, DM the following emojis 💸🌶
I'm not interested in playing with couples... unless it's with my partner! I'm not a unicorn, no matter how magical I appear! 🥰
IMPORTANT NOTE: I am in an open marriage and while I'm looking for connections, I'm not looking for another life partner. 💓 If you know me you can message me, but please keep my lifestyle private as I do yours! 🥰
literally just a fucking girl😘just your... short... crazy... average goth girl...what can I say.. im just me🖤
vanilla me
I love playing with makeup and hair and nails and eyelashes
kinky me🪶💣🍸
i like playing with ropes... and candles... and I love exploring new things.
I have dabbled in BDSM and the swinger lifestyle a little. I’m craving connection and I want to learn more about myself, my kinks and my sexuality.
Hoping to meet some new friends!
Especially interested in meeting other women in the kink scene to be friends with. I don’t have any female friends to talk about any of this stuff with and would enjoy that kind of friendly connection.
Trump supporters can move along…nothing for you here.
🖕🏻🧊
I’m ***, 43, married, and unapologetically straightforward—I’ll tell you if it’s not clicking
, available day times only for now .
I don’t know exactly what I want yet, but I know what I don’t: vanilla vibes, games, ghosting, or drama. Craving bold chemistry, power play, and daytime edges . Swipe if you’re drama-free and ready for real talk
If I'm not hiding behind trade-wife mask I proberly sitting hours on my pc playing Shooters and cuss the world out I'm not really social, I usually don't drink and I quit smoking few years ago mean smell of cigarettes make me wanna throw up now !
I'm rollercoaster of emotions from angry door kicking to curl up kitty.
hubby and I are looking to step more into the lifestyle together! I have been apart of the life style for 12+years and he is about 2-3 years into it, we enjoy swinging, swapping, 3sums or groups! looking for mostly couples or a 3rd to join us in some fun times!
I can I seem to be very dominant in life so in the bedroom I don't want to be the dominant I want somebody else to take control but I don't want multiple partners I want to be able to trust that right one in my life I've realized that this gets looked at funny or taking wrong and people try to use it in a bad way cuz they don't know what they're doing or what I'm talking about and they just run with it so I'm really looking for a true dominate they want to submissive in his life
Queer, masochistic femme bottoms eager to please but with an eye for debauchery to the front please! If you aren’t even a lil queer then you can’t sit here- please move on.
NOW…
Welcome to House of H.E.A.T. (Hedonists Enduring All Things) Sadist through and through, let me *** you with pleasure as you thank me for it 😈 Have a lead? I have two hands and a soft heart for hell hounds. Power exchange? Game on. Impact, wax, rope- let’s play, Doll. That all said…
I take D/s relationships very seriously. Connection & Communication must be developed before anything else. Big on boundaries, respect & consent- don’t hit me up if that doesn’t align with you. My Domme style can be soft or stern. I believe in mutual exchange and care deeply for my play partners- the relationship is for you just as much as it is for me.
NOT A SUB! And don’t take kindly to people trying to *** that dynamic. If you can’t respect that boundary, you are an unsafe person and don’t belong here ‘til you figure that out.
Looking for:
- Friends who like to be involved- go to events, dress up, and/or play💫
- Rope Bottom comfortable engaging in public settings (bonus points if you’re into sadistic rope)
- Other Dom/mes to chat and engage with platonically
- Educators in the area interested in being involved at my venue
NBM Feral Bratty Kitten who has never been properly adopted nor cared for. Looking for an experienced SD Tamer who looking for keeps; to build LT connection both in the streets and sheets.
Really only interested in like-minded play partner for Long-term/re occurring FWB style relationships but I do not jump in immediately and if you message me like a creeper, I may or may not shatter your ego so be respectful because I have a low tolerance for bs and a sharp tongue.... Otherwise, I'm generally a sweetheart.
I'm just a curious lady looking to explore my daydreams and see what kind of kinks I really like! If anyone wants to spoil me and be my sugar daddy I'll be a good little slut for you hehe. I am a freak for sure but I'm not sure what I'm fully looking for FWB maybe idk rn...hit me up we'll see don't be mad I don't write you either......if I like you I will....and I don't have notifications.....make it worth my time.....do better than your so pretty.....I'm a funny, sexy Scorpio looking to be spoiled and have some fun.
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